The simplest distinction
Friends with benefits generally describes friends who include sexual intimacy without an agreed conventional romantic commitment. Situationship commonly describes a romantic or sexual connection whose status and expectations remain unclear.
Friendship
Friendship is built into the FWB label, even if the friendship developed alongside intimacy. A situationship does not necessarily start from friendship.
Ambiguity
FWB can still be ambiguous, but the label at least attempts to define a relationship structure. Situationship is often used specifically because the relationship has not been clearly defined.
Exclusivity and commitment
Neither label tells you automatically whether the relationship is exclusive. That still requires a conversation.
Which one are you in?
If you both explicitly agree that you are friends who also have sex, FWB may fit. If you behave like a couple in some ways but avoid defining expectations, situationship may be the more accurate description.
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FWB, hookup, casual dating and situationship are useful shorthand, but none of them automatically answers whether a relationship is exclusive, how often people communicate, whether sex is involved, or whether either person wants commitment later. Two people can use the same label and still have materially different expectations. Treat the label as the beginning of the definition rather than the complete definition.
Choose the comparison that changes a decision
Relationship labels are most useful when the distinction affects what you do next. If the question is whether to date other people, discuss exclusivity. If the question is whether this is becoming romantic, discuss intention and expectations. If the question is sexual health, discuss partners, protection and testing. The practical issue should drive the conversation.
Labels help describe a relationship, but expectations are specific to the people in it. When something important changes, a direct conversation is usually more useful than trying to decode a rule from the internet.